4-28-23 Resources for Talking to Your Kids About Identity, Dating, Sex, and Sexuality

We have been doing a series with our high school students over the last 2 months called “The Road to a Great Love Story”. Our hope is that these couple of weeks would be one piece of a much bigger and more consistent conversation that you are having with your kids about all of these topics. There are so many voices talking to our kids about these things so we want to make sure they are regularly hearing our voice, and more importantly God’s voice, on these things.

Below is a list of resources to help equip you as you navigate these conversations with your kids. There is so much good stuff out there and this is only a small sample. I hope its helpful but I’d also love to hear resources that have been helpful to you.

Also, if you have a specific question that isn’t addressed here, or you’d like more help in a certain area, please don’t hesitate to ask!

BOOKS

Identity

The Dignity Revolution by Daniel Darling

FaceTime: Your Identity In A Selfie World by Kristen Hatton

Good Faith: Being a Christian When Society Thinks You’re Irrelevant and Extreme [different chapters cover a number of issues we’re talking about] by David Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons

Who Am I and Why Does it Matter? By Christopher Morphew

Sex

Mom, Dad…What’s Sex: Giving Your Kids A Gospel-Centered View of Sex and Our Culture

   by Jessica Thompson and Joel Fitzpatrick

The Meaning of Marriage by Tim and Kathy Keller

Homosexuality

10 Questions Every Teen Should Ask [and Answer] about Christianity by Rebecca McLaughlin

Born Again This Way by Rachel Gilson

Is God Anti-Gay? by Sam Alberry

Gay Girl, Good God by Jackie Hill Perry

Messy Grace by Caleb Kaltenbach

The Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert by Rosaria Butterfield

What Does the Bible Really Teach About Homosexuality? by Kevin DeYoung

Gender

God and the Transgender Debate by Andrew Walker

Gender: A Conversation Guide For Parents and Pastors by Hunter Leavine

10 Questions Every Teen Should Ask [and Answer] about Christianity by Rebecca McLaughlin

Pornography

Good Pictures, Bad Pictures by Kristen Jenson

Dating

Age of Opportunity by Paul David Tripp

The Mingling of Souls by Matt Chandler

“We’re Just Friends” and Other Dating Lies by Chuck Milian

ARTICLES/ PAMPHLETS

Hey Kids, You Are Being Lied to About Sex by Cameron Cole

20 Quotes on Discussing Gender With Your Kids

Necessary Conversations About Sexuality and Gender

What’s Love Got to Do With It: Navigating Teen Dating by Kristen Hatton

How to Talk About Sex Without Sounding Like a Prude, Legalist, or a Peddler of Toxic Purity Culture by Seth Stewart

Pamphlets Available at Church

Raising Sexually Healthy Kids by David White

How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex by William P. Smith

Explaining LGBTQ+ Identity to Your Child by Tim Geiger

Your Child Says “I’m Gay” by Tim Geiger

WEBSITES

Center For Parent/ Youth Understanding- Sexual Integrity Initiative

Harvest USA

Rooted Ministry

Fuller Youth Institute

PODCASTS

7 Ways to Navigate a Sexually Shifting Culture

God’s Beautiful Design for Gender

VIDEOS

How Do I Explain LGBTQ+ Issues to My Children?

How to Talk to Your Children About Sex